Friday, October 11, 2013

Are You A Lone Nut? A lesson to develop leadership

I first saw this video about a week ago, and I instantly fell in love with it.  Why?  I often feel like I am the lone nut.  With my groups, I try to help them discover their leadership skills; I find that I am trying to inspire them to be my first followers. 

Transcript:

If you've learned a lot about leadership and making a movement, then let's watch a movement happen, start to finish, in under 3 minutes, and dissect some lessons:
A leader needs the guts to stand alone and look ridiculous. But what he's doing is so simple, it's almost instructional. This is key. You must be easy to follow!
Now comes the first follower with a crucial role: he publicly shows everyone how to follow. Notice the leader embraces him as an equal, so it's not about the leader anymore - it's about them, plural. Notice he's calling to his friends to join in. It takes guts to be a first follower! You stand out and brave ridicule, yourself. Being a first follower is an under-appreciated form of leadership. The first follower transforms a lone nut into a leader. 
If the leader is the flint, the first follower is the spark that makes the fire. 
The 2nd follower is a turning point: it's proof the first has done well. Now it's not a lone nut, and it's not two nuts. Three is a crowd and a crowd is news.
A movement must be public. Make sure outsiders see more than just the leader. Everyone needs to see the followers, because new followers emulate followers - not the leader.
Now here come 2 more, then 3 more. Now we've got momentum. This is the tipping point! Now we've got a movement!
As more people jump in, it's no longer risky. If they were on the fence before, there's no reason not to join now. They won't be ridiculed, they won't stand out, and they will be part of the in-crowd, if they hurry. Over the next minute you'll see the rest who prefer to be part of the crowd, because eventually they'd be ridiculed for not joining.
And ladies and gentlemen that is how a movement is made! Let's recap what we learned:
If you are a version of the shirtless dancing guy, all alone, remember the importance of nurturing your first few followers as equals, making everything clearly about the movement, not you.
Be public. Be easy to follow!
But the biggest lesson here - did you catch it?
Leadership is over-glorified.
Yes it started with the shirtless guy, and he'll get all the credit, but you saw what really happened:
It was the first follower that transformed a lone nut into a leader.
There is no movement without the first follower.
We're told we all need to be leaders, but that would be really ineffective.
The best way to make a movement, if you really care, is to courageously follow and show others how to follow.
When you find a lone nut doing something great, have the guts to be the first person to stand up and join in.


My lesson today started with  a discussion about how October is Bully Prevention Month.  I played the groups this video, and afterwards I did my own little dance and told the kids I was the lone nut.  I asked them to be my first followers.  Although I am not looking for a first follower to transform me into a leader, I am looking for a first follower to start the momentum and create a movement. 

Our discussion that followed was all about how we could make transformations in our school to make sure that we could be Bully Free.  We talked about:
  • What is their "spark that will start the fire"? 
  • What can they do to make others "courageously follow" them? 
  • What "guts" will they show to be "the first person to stand up and join in?"
What do you think of this video?  Do you have other video clips that you use with students to help them understand the concept of leading?  Let me know.
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2 comments:

  1. I showed this to my girls group today. Before, we discussed the differences and similarities between being popular and being a leader. I then wanted them fill out a Declaration of Intention found on Pinterest, but the bell rang. Thanks for sharing!

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  2. I love all these ideas for helping students discover their leadership skills!! Both you and Carol have encouraged me to start a lunch bunch group

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